She keeps saying, "I'm being neglected" or saying whiney things. Just attention - more attention... more ... insatiable. She says rude things but with a smile like "I'm just kidding" (but rude) to the service providers.
I told her she is absolutely not being neglected. (She listened, and said, "you need to keep telling me that..." which is of course good but also a call for more attention from me...) She's getting all the attention plus some. Other clients of hospice have desperate situations - she doesn't.